Curious religious question?

God gave you a will,to choose between him and yourself,you chose self and the results of choosing self is hell. Yes God knows all but he created Angels and People to receive love.The only way to receive love is to give choices,1/3 of the Angels chose Lucifer and so does Man. If you had a significant other would you shackle them to the bed so they will love you and you alone?or will you let them choose you over another?